What Happens to you when you are in Love????
Really not sure how will people answer.. Everyone has one or the other answer for this question... I also have an answer.. But mine.. Its totally a different view...
Dont Mistake me for what i have written,,,, All these are written based on True and Real experience and my friends Experience....
The person whom you Love will not accept u as u are.. They will want u to change..
Your True Intentions would not be valued at all...
Even if you are ready to accept them like as they are, they are not ready for that.....
When you tell them that U love them, the first question the will ask is what made you feel like that.. As far as i am concerned, no one can be sure of what made them fall for the other person, it could be anything or it could be everything on the whole... But u can say it and when u are not sure of what made u like that, then your love, even if it is truthful is not valued at all....
People would say that they had a bad love life, when you tell them to throw that, they will never and ever throw that becasue they would still have a false hope that something good might happen.... Inspite of being lost, they wont accept your help, incase if u like such a person, they wont accept or something will stop them from accepting and thats very tough to make that person realise... All you have to do is to wait for the person to rebound to you, even for ages, if you are truthful... Else Pray for them to get thier bad experience transformed to an wonderful experience...
There are instance that you would be put into test... Waiting.. For what.. Like you go and tell a person that u like her or him, they would say... Tell me if you would be like this after 3 years.. Then i would accept you... Now what are they trying to test here... Truth, or Love or the person.. Or for what is this waiting period.. It was funny once when a person said that you might get some one better than me in this waiting time... But imagine,A person tells someone like this and u are being asked to wait for 3 years,,, And say something unfortunate happens on the last day before the 3 year ends.. The person who proposed dies in an accident... What is the use.. The person didnt live a life... "Love should be Unconditional"..... It should make u live intensely, live totally and here and now,,, Not then and there....
The worst thing is bringing parents into your life... Like i dont mean that parents are not important,,, Some would really say that if my parents are Ok i will also be Ok..... But when you ask them If your parents point fingers on me and ask if you can marry me will you tell ok?? The answer would be let me see or thats what i have told u na, my parents choice..
Life is not like choose the correct answer.. Its a short, Choose the best... Choose the one that will best suit you....
So Guys and Gals... If you are getting into some thing called Love.... Beware.... U may come across such situations,,,, BEWARE and then dont break your heads and keep waiting without knowing.... What could happen...... But if u are still sinciere.. Go ahead and wait,.. Thats a great feeling u can have....
TTH
