Why do you get attracted to some one whom you dont know??

There's been this question always in my mind.. when my friends spoke about thier attractions, i used to make hay while the sun shines, meaning i used to comment them because there are simply Ironic and the person who attracted them is Magnetic...

But the fate doesnt leave anybody from being Ironic or Magnetic. at any one point of time you could be a ironic person, some other time you could become a magnetic person.. Or sometimes even both, meaning that you would be attracted to somebody and somebody would be attracted to you...

The important question here is that, Why only some irons(The Attracted) are able to reach there magnets(Person Attracting) and stay together, and some dont even experience the pull, or simply dont achive in reaching thier magnet.....

In real life, this would have happened to many of the people who would read this.. May be could have happend to you also....

Why is that you should first get attracted to some one whom you dont know.. What could be the possible reason behind getting attracted to some one...

I was also attracted to a magnet in my life, once or twice or even more!!!! Phew, but then instead of the magnets force pulling me, i was repelled out from the magnetic field totally some times.. Some times i didnt not bother to respond to the force....

Though i guess there is no point in blaming the magnet at all, but still i cant blame myself too for being ironic (Getting attracted.. Happens Guys :))..

Whose mistake is this?

When i was thinking about the same thing over a period of time, something stuck me...

The possible reasons for being attracted and the possible reasons why all attractions never attach are listed below...

The reasons for getting attracted :

1. The magnetic force is pulling you hard and the most important thing is that you are experiencing the same..
2. Your valance electron is very active, meaning you are desperate to attach to something
3. The forces around you are pushing you towards the magenet and then by somemeans you start experiencing the same
4. Simply to saw, Nature... Meaning its a simple Biology that you cant stop yourself from getting attracted or to attract someone from the opposite sex...

The reasons for why sometimes you are lost??

1. You are not anymore Ironic to the magnet, you loose the Ironic features
2. There are external disturbance to infulence the Magnetic field
3. You are a rusted Iron - You need a clean up!!!!
4. The magnet is already attached to some other Iron....
5. You Experience the magnetic field, but you cant move yourself till the magnet, means you are holding your self to something else..
6. You are already attached to some other magnet and now that you dont want to go or the magnet thats holding you is very strong, where ever you go, it attracts and brings you back
7. The magnet that you are attracted to currently repels the other magnets coming near you..

Well i can mention other couple of reasons more, but let me cease myself from writing some more....
Guys,
Irrespective of any of the things that was discussed here there could be a lot.. This is just a ideology or a thought that came into my psychopathic head. Dont take this a serious thing that i had innovated or something..... But just my scribblings..
Well i was also an Iron before, a Magnet for sometime and an Iron again... You change as the life changes......
But still if you are a very strong magnet, you can still pull in your Iron, even if it is attracted to some other magnet.
If you are a Strongly lighter Iron, you will surely reach the magnet or make the magnet to pull you more..
Or you could be just a magnet always trying to attract,
Or, you could be a rusted Iron, where you have to clean your self or someone to clean you to get attached.
Or you could be an unlucky Strongly Lighter Iron (like me), where you desperately fail with all magnets,
But still Iron is Iron, a Magnet is a Magnet,, Apart from getting attached each other there are other great things for which the iron can serve as a purpose and the magnet ofcourse can contribute in someother area....
Remember You can be a pillar for a strong building if you are an iron, you can be a base material for a lot of things if you are a magnet inspite of not being attracted to each other..
That time you will really feel how you are being helpful and doing something to the people around you,,,,
I dont mean to say that only if you are not attached alone you could contribute, well we all know the fact that An Iron and A Magnet is a great pair and can achieve a lot of things being together.....
Thanks for your time,
Excited to Live and let others live,
TTH